ABOUT THE BOOK
Marriage on Purpose: A Paradigm for Christian Marriage by Dr. Deborah C. Bauers and Jane Daly isn't just another marriage book. It gets into the core of what truly makes a Christian marriage thrive. Drawing on Dr. Bauers' experience as a Christian counselor and Jane Daly's insightful writing, the book provides a practical framework built on Biblical principles. It's your roadmap to a marriage that reflects God's love and strengthens your journey together.
A must-read for any Christian couple seeking a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Characters and Theme
Brett
Background
Brett works in construction and feels the weight of his job, which leaves him exhausted by the end of the day. His parents separated when he was thirteen, and he lived mostly with his mother. This experience has influenced his desire to work hard and provide a stable life for his children.
Personality and Struggles
Brett is characterized by a need for downtime after work, which leads to conflicts with Sara over household responsibilities. He feels unappreciated and struggles with the pressure of balancing work and family life. Brett's reluctance to express his emotions is a barrier to building emotional intimacy with Sara.
Commitment to Marriage
Initially, Brett is less motivated to attend counseling, only agreeing to it due to Sara's insistence. However, he does not want to follow in his parent's footsteps and is open to working on their marriage.
Read MoreSara
Background
Sara has a demanding job and feels overwhelmed by her responsibilities both at work and at home. She is often the one managing the household and taking care of their children, leading to feelings of frustration and exhaustion.
Personality and Struggles
Sara feels unsupported by Brett and is disheartened by the lack of quality time they spend together. Her dissatisfaction has grown to the point where she considers leaving the marriage. Sara’s struggle is not only with Brett’s perceived lack of contribution but also with the emotional toll of feeling unappreciated.
Commitment to Marriage
Despite her frustration, Sara is willing to try counseling as a last effort to save their marriage. Her faith and the influence of a friend who had a positive counseling experience motivated her to give their relationship another chance.
Read MoreCounseling Dynamics
Initial Sessions
The sessions reveal the depth of their struggles, with Brett and Sara often falling into the "blame game." Their counselor focuses on establishing a foundation of trust and emotional intimacy, emphasizing the importance of commitment and mutual respect.
Emotional Journey
Through counseling, both Brett and Sara begin to explore their individual feelings and the underlying issues in their marriage. They are guided to understand the importance of emotional intimacy and to communicate more effectively.
Read MoreThing's you will learn
01- Building a Solid Foundation
Readers will discover the importance of trust, mutual respect, and the four pillars of intimacy (emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical) in building a solid foundation for marriage.
02- The Power of Commitment
It will help readers go beyond conflict resolution and develop a deeper commitment that sustains relationships through challenges and growth.
03- Communication from the Heart
Readers will learn powerful communication tools for expressing feelings, listening deeply, and genuinely validating their spouse's experiences.
04- Bringing God into Marriage
It will also help readers explore how faith can guide a person, strengthen their bond, and provide a source of hope and inspiration in their journey together.
05- Facing Challenges Head-On
It will help readers gain insights and practical tools for overcoming common marital issues like infidelity, communication breakdowns and navigating life's inevitable hurdles.
Who This Book Is For
Couples of all ages seeking to strengthen their Christian marriage.
Pre-engaged couples desiring a solid foundation for their future.
Pastors, counselors, and anyone passionate about healthy Christian relationships.
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Readers Cannot Stop Appreciating
Lisa Morale
This book is a game-changer! Dr. Bauers' clear guidance and practical exercises can literally give a clear view of reality. It is a book that can help people address communication barriers and build a deeper emotional connection with the love of their life. I highly recommend it!
Anonymous.
There was a time when I was very skeptical about the decisions I made in relevance to my love life. Even though I was three months into my marriage, I somehow felt that there was no intimacy or romantic connection between me and my wife. After reading Marriage on Purpose, I was convinced that couple therapy could really help me, too. And it did happen. Now, I am 9 months into my marriage, fully happy and convinced that therapists aren’t what we perceive them to be—great work by Deborah.
James Perry
Well-written, insightful, and practical. Marriage on Purpose is a must-read for any Christian couple seeking to build a lasting and fulfilling relationship. goes beyond the surface. It can help people confront their own shortcomings and work towards forgiveness and empathy. This book is a true gift for couples.